Parents have lots of concerns when it comes to lifestyle newborn sessions. What to wear, the state of their “non-instagrammable-looking” home, and more than anything, how do you handle newborn photos with siblings?
Some of the comments I’ve heard regularly from parents leading up to a newborn photography session at home are:
The first 5 minutes of this session were calm and glorious. We photographed in the nursery, which was a tight fit with just one window, but we got some sweet moments of the girls together and of the baby by herself.
Then it broke down. Sweet toddler girl wanted nothing to do with me or anyone.
I ended up getting one set of everyone together by keeping bunny grahams in my pocket and making them hop out to surprise her.
We did breakdowns of baby with each parent (ah those serene moments) while the other parent took one for the team and fielded the tantrums.
Finally, a change of scenery outside was a game-changer. There’s always something you can do. When asked at the end if she had fun, big sis said “YEA!” with enthusiasm.
Best news ever – I will never make your kid sit still or “smile big.”
In fact, I’ve found that doing the opposite often leads to family engagement much more authentically.
This little lady was a jumping bean, so we alternated between letting her do silly things, and countering it with prompts like “go tell your brother where you’re going to jump next!”
For the 2 minutes we got her to catch her breath, I conveniently laid brother beside her and gave her challenges – “can you kiss his ear!?” “can you kiss his forehead soooo soft he doesn’t even feel it!?”
Bonus challenge for this session – it all took place in one room. The family was moving to a new state that week and their entire house was upended aside from this spot.
When there are several kids close together in age, a newborn session with siblings gets even more interesting.
Siblings might be interested in the baby for a brief second, but really, it’s all a competition for parental attention.
The good news is that I don’t need them to be interested in the baby to make photos that have warmth and tenderness.
I just need parents who are interested in playing with and loving on their kids! (and that’s you, I know it!!)
This little newborn girl was nursing for about 75% of the session.
We made beautiful photos of that interaction, but I was also able to make fun portraits of the other siblings while the newborn and mama were busy!
The older girls literally got out Guess Who to play on the bed in the middle of the session because baby was just nursing non-stop, so we just rolled with it and those are some of my favorite shots!
In-between feeding, baby was often crying– likely because we needed her to stop eating for at least a few seconds… but we were still able to get lots of really special, intimate, and fun images that speak to the heart of this family’s dynamic.
If you’re pregnant and have older kids but still want newborn photos that give you the feels (but not all the stress), I’m your girl.
If you have older kids who make you think “there’s no way they’d go for this…” HI, also here for that.
Families are my heart and soul. Every kind and every way. You deserve photos that bring you back to a place of love, even on the hard days. Let’s make it happen together.
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